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Nutcase - Certified and Sectioned Mr. Issigonis: we are not worthy . . .
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Evidently his daughter - seemingly pretty much estranged - has objected to the planned burial, wants a cremation and has instructed solicitors in the matter. When I last heard, all plans for next Thursday are off/on hold.
What do you think Ralph would think of this unedifying turn of events?!
Thank you for confirming. I remember Del boy in Fools and Horses going to the wrong Funeral. Ralph will be smiling at everyone getting their act together.
I hope that everything goes well on Thursday. With all you loving nutcases going and convoying, it is sure to be a fitting send off for a man so well thought of by so many. Wave the flags for those of us that didnt know him but feel the loss for those that did. Much love.
Hi everyone on the NDMR forum, before I say anything else thank you for all your support it was great to know that Ralph was so well love and the comments you have put have been wonderful. Also if Rita read this thanks you for the flowers they have filled a few vases, they are just lovely try to phone but never got you. Well as some of you will have seen, and I wanted you to know what was happening Ralph funeral was put on hold, this was because I was having problems with Nicola(Ralph Dausghter) in that she wanted Ralph to be burned and I wanted him buried as does his mother, I feel that I needed him to be whole, not completely destroyed. I wanted to be able to visit him, not a pot of dust. Because nicola wanted her own way she contact solicitors and refuse the body to be moved from the hospital. Ralph and I had been to my family grave many times over the last 5 years and he knew my views, it helps to easy the hurt when you feel that you can go and visit and talk to him afterward, because of this I cannot believe he would not have said that he would rather be burned. it would only be me or maybe his mum that would have visited the grave anyway.I have tried to explain my views, that I feel that it would be destroying ralph completely but she has now said she would like to do this as his last wish, however his last wish was for nicola to stay the night he died but he died with me reading to him. At least I had that time with him. Now today things have hit a low in that I have received a letter from Nicola solicitors asking for all Ralphs paperwork and personal poossession and of course any money he has or coming to him. As such I will not be coming to the funeral as I cannot bear to see him being destroyed. I am only sorry that I was not able to stop this happening to him after all he went though he did not deserve this fate. I have let him down again. Eve
Dear Eve, I feel for you, when my mother died, there was a lot of bad feeling with my step father, i now tell people to make sure that your personal choice is known. please dont feel that you cant talk to ralph, he will be with you. i wish you strength, you where there when he needed you, and no way did you let him down. all our love, Andrea and Kevin Morgan x
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